There’s something really curious… about men and how different types of men vary in response to dating. Growing up in a predominately white neighborhood, a lot of my celebrity crushes encompassed either Jesse McCartney, Nick Jonas or Ryan Cabrera (yeah, I admit to that). But in my mind, I knew early on that the guys who absolutely just wouldn’t (and…
I adore my friends. They care about me, support me in (almost) everything that I do, but as we went through high school together, I was seeing myself in the world from a different perspective because I was the fat friend of the group. I was more than 100 lbs over the weight of my friends and despite all of…
When people are used to… seeing the same mainstream image over and over, it’s hard to look yourself in the mirror only to realize that you’re not one of them. That’s how little I felt crushing on every white boy in my all white school (save for me of course). I never liked to reveal my crushes to any of…
It’s pretty evident that in fashion… people carry around the idea that all women have the same body—the reality is we don’t. We used to look at every retailer’s website, just to find that the same size models with the same blonde hair were selling looks bigger bitches could never wear. But it recently just occurred to me that America…
I know I haven’t been posting for a minute…buuuuut that’s because I’ve been trying to get my shit together in life (as many people my age are), but I had to write this post on a whim because I hate hypocrisy and I have to call it like I see it. Late last night, Champagne Papi, a.k.a Aubrey “Drake” Graham,…
